Thankfully, Kerry is now without her frame, but, she is keen to share her experience...
Hi Dave,
Congratulations on your website, it's very easy to navigate and i'm sure it will be of use to lots of people. I began a blog just after my accident, but, only ever managed one entry! I think it must have been the drugs, I couldnt even concentrate on reading a book at the time.
I have been Lizzy free for just over a month now, and, compared to many others, have had a relatively easy journey. I am a 31 year old female and this is My Story.....
I used to work for a care agency which involved travelling to various schemes providing assistance for people with learning difficulties. On May 11th, whilst travelling home from work, I was driving down a busy but rural road, there was a line of oncoming traffic and a car pulled out to overtake, I began slowing down as I could not see a gap in the traffic for him to pull into and he was heading straight at me, he kept coming, I was doing about fifty so I braked more firmly, believing that he was going to hit me head on. I swerved to avoid him, and in doing so I hit the verge on the side of the road, and, I'm told, hit my head, knocking me out. After half an hour (I am informed) I awoke, disoriantated, in a now convertible car (the roof had been removed by the rescue services) I was surrounded by paramedics and firemen. Although it was only around 2.30pm, the sky was dark as it was about to rain, I felt like I was drunk, and, not remembering what had happened to me, began insisting that I had not had a drink! (thats morphine for you) although I have never drunk driven. Apparently I said that I'd be fine and that I could walk from here, telling the boys they could go home! I was trapped in the car by my legs and had to wait for cutting equipment to get me out. I am told I was trapped for a couple of hours, and when the ambulance crew came to see me in hospital afterwards, they told me that they thought that when I was released from the wreckage of the car, I would go into cardiac arrest as a result of my injuries. I am obviously as hard as nails and survived! One of the firemen said afterwards that if I had been a man I would have been crying like a baby, I think that I was trying not to draw too much attention to myself, believing that I was drunk!
I was air lifted to the Royal Devon & Exeter Hospital, where it was ascertained that I had suffered: A fractured left femur, multiple fractures to my right femur, a severely fractured left ankle, fractured right wrist, and fractured ribs resulting in a collapsed lung. Proper job!
That night I went into surgery where they fixed my left femur with a plate & screws, my right femur had an IM rod, and my wrist with a plate and screws. My ankle went in plaster and I slipped in and out of conciousness untill Sunday after noon, after another surgery when I awoke, to my absolute horror, to see my ankle encased in a Lizzy!
I was kept in hospital for 2 and a half weeks (the worst thing, I found, just to be graphic, was being constipated for a week, as a result of the morphine) My stay was prolonged because I was 5 weeks pregnant at the time of the accident. I had a miscarriage, the Docs cant be sure if this would have happened anyway, but, I have my own suspicions, after such a shock. Due to the femur fractures, I was not able to weight bear at all for 2 months, then progressed to a zimmer frame, much to my disgust! For two months I had dreamed of getting my independance back, and could picture myself on cruches, with a rucksack on, heading to the seafront to read a book, to be allowed out on my own seemed so liberating!
I finally got my cruches but it was a bit of an anti climax, when out on my own I felt vulnerable. It was easier to wear skirts with the lizzy for obvious reasons, and I got a sort of perverse pleasure from frightening old people and children!
I had the Lizzy removed on 03/09 and now am on only one crutch. I dont have to see my physio until the end of October and just have to excercise as much as possible, and swimming is a great help. When I was out and about with my lizzy on, people would see it and get out of my way, now, with my crutch, they seem to ignore it so I am constantly having to weave around people. I have a very pronounced limp & don't know if this will stay with me for ever. I managed to finish the degree that I was doing and graduated in my wheelchair in June. Although I am ready to go back to work, I am not fit enough to return to my old job so am looking for alternative employment at the moment, an office based job.
My story is a lucky one, I am lucky to be alive, lucky to have a great network of friends and family, and a very supportive partner. I didnt suffer any infections and have amazed the medical staff with my quick progress. I put this down to having a positive mental attitude, either that or being to dumb to realise how seriously I had been hurt (When I was in hospital, I thought that I would still be able to go to Glastonbury at the end of June)!
I was back behind the wheel the day after the lizzy came off which was a bit scary and I still dont know the exact circumstances of the accident, I still managed to hit the man who was coming towards me. I should recieve a copy of the collision report from the police within the next month, which should be an eye opener.
I just wanted to share this story with you, I know I get a lot out of reading about other peoples experiences.
You seem to be a positive, proactive person and I am sure there will be a good outcome eventually for you, as there was for me. Good luck on your journey, and thank god for the internet! (It kept me amused over those long months when I was stuck at home)
Regards,
Kerry.